…but we’d prefer if you came to our wedding without them.
Now how can I politely get this through to family and friends who are traveling to attend our wedding? We are on a budget and have to pay per person for dinner. Do you bite the bullet and go over budget to pay for plates for children who more than likely won’t eat a full meal? Live with the fear that one will act out as you say your vows?
Frankly, I’m not close to any of the children in my family (a result from not living near them) so I don’t know how they will behave in public. And that worries me.